There you sit
smiling
And it's you I watch
wanting
But you don't even know
What it is you do to me
So I keep on watching
and wanting
as I bleed
Every time I look at you
Every time I talk to you
Every time I smell you
My heart continues
melting
And I am forever
dreaming
Whenever you pass me by
Whenever you catch my eye
I feel like I want to cry
Because of what it is you do to me
Your eyes
gleaming
And your lips
pleading
And your hands
exploring
While my heart remains
bleeding
Every time you look at me
I wonder what it is you see
Every time you talk to me
And I hear that beautiful voice
My knees get weak
My stomach flutters
My chest collapses
My neck hairs tingle
And I stop breathing
Just in that moment in time
When you do what it is you do to me
As I sit here
yearning
I imagine you
sleeping
And I want to hold you endlessly
Forever in my arms for eternity
I'll continue
dreaming
As long as you are
living
breathing
being
Thursday, September 16, 2010
Wednesday, September 15, 2010
The Harbour
Look out on the water see what I see. The water, it seperates us. Makes our two worlds So entirely different. We see, and smell different things. But the one thing we do see is each other across the water. But just because our worlds are different doesn't mean we aren't the same. I love you, near or far. I wish that the water would just disappear bringing us together. My head starts spinning with ideas. I wish I could be with you. But when I look over once more, I see her wrap her arms around you, and kiss you softly. I envy her. But I realize, shes in your world. And I am not.
My Heart And I
Love you so my dear to you ~ I take a bow this love is sincere no new beginnings now. To you ~ I take a bow, we have loved for years let's shout it out aloud no fears and no tears. This love is sincere my soul ~ it tells no lie when you hold me near we sing - my heart and I. No new beginnings now needn't change our ways you and I made a vow to last all our days.
FOR YOU
I love you more than words could ever say, I feel it growing in my heart each and every day, All this love I feel Has never felt so real You give me something no one has ever given me, It's something you cannot see Love so strong, and so true It makes me think of only you This wonderful feeling you have given me Makes me want to be with you endlessly I want to be in your arms To feel your warm embrace It makes me feel so safe from harm Plus, I love to touch your face I love to look into your eyes To look through your disguise To feel your warm hands within mine As our fingers gently become entwined Your kisses so soft and sweet It makes me crave a thousand more I wonder how your heart keeps a steady beat, Because mine just soars I love the way you let me know How much you love me so I love how much you care The love you show to me is beyond compare, I love the way you smile That compliments your sexy style My eyes are kept on you all the while I love to hear you say "okay" You say it at least once a day I love the way you apologize Because it always makes me realize That what you did, was done unintentionally, And that you still love me Even though I'm strange You don't want me to change You say that I'm just right Especially when we're about to fight I hate to see you mad I hate to see you sad It makes me feel so bad What you feel, I feel That's because our love is real I hate to see you cry To always have to wonder why? I'm sorry I sometimes do the things I do That always make you feel blue I'm sorry if I hurt you so My anger is sometimes hard to control I don't like when you feel insecure Don't worry so much, because I'm sure That no one can ever take your place Because I love not only your beautiful face, I also love the real you inside There's no way I could have let you pass me by Don't worry you're the only one for me You, and I, and everyone else can see I love you with all my heart No one could ever make us part.
Clouds Of Love
On the night I met you, my heart stoped beating it froze with with desire, at what I was seeing. On this night for us that shoud'nt have been, what lay ahead nobody could see. You alone started these flames of wanting desire, a million seas couldn't quench the fire. But love isn't always the easy friend, you have to sail the storm to recieve the love you send. So till the day comes that these arms can hold you near, I'll sail the storms and watch as the clouds disapear.
Tuesday, September 14, 2010
Dance Me To The End Of Love
Dance with me in love
Dance with me in life
When did enduring love begin?
The day we became man and wife
There is patience and understanding
We try to be unselfish and kind
Though not a fairy-tale romance
No greater love will we find
Sharing dreams, passions, and desires
Building each other up when we fall
We've learned to say I'm sorry
And I love you through it all
Our two hearts beat as one
Cherishing what we have from above
Dance with me forever
Dance me to the end of love
Dance with me in life
When did enduring love begin?
The day we became man and wife
There is patience and understanding
We try to be unselfish and kind
Though not a fairy-tale romance
No greater love will we find
Sharing dreams, passions, and desires
Building each other up when we fall
We've learned to say I'm sorry
And I love you through it all
Our two hearts beat as one
Cherishing what we have from above
Dance with me forever
Dance me to the end of love
But Little Did I Know
I remember like it was yesterday, the day I first saw your face.
I remember your smile so vividly, your beauty and your grace.
But little did I know. I could not comprehend,
that you would touch my life so much by becoming my best friend.
Your hand embraced with mine, the star lit sky did see
How, although my chest was pounding, I dropped down to one knee.
I didn't think my heart had room, for my love to grow
There's just no way to love you more, but how little did I know.
Dressed in white, our eyes then met, standing in that sacred room.
When we both agreed to be man and wife my love for you did bloom.
I cannot explain. My heart just grew. I've never felt this way.
But little did I know, that I'd love you more each day.
The memories remain, yet those days are now long past.
The time has gone so sweet and slow, but at the same time fast.
My love for you is greater now, than it ever was before.
But little do I know right now, how much I'll love you more.
I remember your smile so vividly, your beauty and your grace.
But little did I know. I could not comprehend,
that you would touch my life so much by becoming my best friend.
Your hand embraced with mine, the star lit sky did see
How, although my chest was pounding, I dropped down to one knee.
I didn't think my heart had room, for my love to grow
There's just no way to love you more, but how little did I know.
Dressed in white, our eyes then met, standing in that sacred room.
When we both agreed to be man and wife my love for you did bloom.
I cannot explain. My heart just grew. I've never felt this way.
But little did I know, that I'd love you more each day.
The memories remain, yet those days are now long past.
The time has gone so sweet and slow, but at the same time fast.
My love for you is greater now, than it ever was before.
But little do I know right now, how much I'll love you more.
Monday, September 13, 2010
If Ever You Need Me
If ever you need me,
I'll be right here,
To chase away the sadness,
And wipe away a tear.
If ever you need me,
I'll be two steps behind,
To follow in your footsteps,
And hear what's on your mind.
If ever you need me,
You'll never have to fear,
That your presence isn't important,
And your love isn't dear.
If ever you need me,
I'll always be around,
To bring back the laughter,
Where deep in your heart it's found.
You'll never have to worry,
For I'll always be here,
To chase away the sadness,
And wipe away a tear.
I am here for you!
I'll be right here,
To chase away the sadness,
And wipe away a tear.
If ever you need me,
I'll be two steps behind,
To follow in your footsteps,
And hear what's on your mind.
If ever you need me,
You'll never have to fear,
That your presence isn't important,
And your love isn't dear.
If ever you need me,
I'll always be around,
To bring back the laughter,
Where deep in your heart it's found.
You'll never have to worry,
For I'll always be here,
To chase away the sadness,
And wipe away a tear.
I am here for you!
Control Internet Usage
Control Internet Usage
When you first connect your computer to a broadband service, it's easy to get carried away and start downloading lots of movies, songs and other media. These files chew up your usage quota in no time (not to mention space on your computer's hard drive!). If your broadband plan has a usage cap, you need to stay within your limit otherwise you could incur excess download fees, and they can quickly add up.
Choosing the right data limit
Often it's hard at first to know what download limit you or your family will need. If you want to download music, the odd movie and let the kids play online computer games, then you will need a higher-end plan - at least 10GB.
But if you just want to use email, do some research and a bit of share trading then a lighter plan will be sufficient. Keeping Windows and your other software updated can use a fair amount of data too, this is important to consider when choosing a data limit.
Sharing a broadband connection with housemates / family
If you are sharing a broadband connection in a household, you need to be wary of your roommates' web surfing habits. If they're downloading movies and mp3s fairly constantly, you'll either be left with a slow Internet connection after your ISP has shaped* it back to snail's pace or a huge bill at the end of the month.
Firewalls and Antivirus software
A broadband connection is constantly connected to the Internet, so a firewall and up-to-date antivirus software are essential. A firewall helps block unwanted threats like hackers from getting into your system.
Many people believe once you install antivirus software on your computer, that's all you need to do, that's not right. It needs to be kept up-to-date by downloading regular virus definitions from the software manufacturer's website. This should be automatic or at least once a week.
Monitor your usage
Most ISPs have tools that let you monitor your usage. Sometimes these are downloadable tools that sit in your taskbar, or you just login to the ISP's website to check monthly or daily summaries. If you find you are burning through your quota, crack down on the offending parties or consider changing plans.
File sharing software
Many people don't understand the dangers of programs like LimeWire, BitTorrent and other peer-to-peer (P2P) sharing applications. Not only do they leave your PC open to attack from viruses and spyware, people can download files from your computer - instantly increasing your usage. Remember, usage is any traffic to and from your PC.
P2P programs can also transform your PC into a "supernode". This means other users can upload file lists to your machine, so when people search for files, they send the request to a supernode - increasing unwanted traffic to your PC and using up your data limit.
Sites with high data usage
Video streaming and online gaming sites use a lot of data transfer. You need to bear this in mind, because watching YouTube videos or online news bulletins can very quickly use up your allocated data. The graphical nature of interactive online games also plough through your download limits, using anywhere between 10MB and 80MB an hour.
*Shaped or shaping means an ISP has reduced the speed of your Internet connection after you've reached your data limit. The meter resets at the next billing cycle. This stops you getting nasty excess fees each month.
When you first connect your computer to a broadband service, it's easy to get carried away and start downloading lots of movies, songs and other media. These files chew up your usage quota in no time (not to mention space on your computer's hard drive!). If your broadband plan has a usage cap, you need to stay within your limit otherwise you could incur excess download fees, and they can quickly add up.
Choosing the right data limit
Often it's hard at first to know what download limit you or your family will need. If you want to download music, the odd movie and let the kids play online computer games, then you will need a higher-end plan - at least 10GB.
But if you just want to use email, do some research and a bit of share trading then a lighter plan will be sufficient. Keeping Windows and your other software updated can use a fair amount of data too, this is important to consider when choosing a data limit.
Sharing a broadband connection with housemates / family
If you are sharing a broadband connection in a household, you need to be wary of your roommates' web surfing habits. If they're downloading movies and mp3s fairly constantly, you'll either be left with a slow Internet connection after your ISP has shaped* it back to snail's pace or a huge bill at the end of the month.
Firewalls and Antivirus software
A broadband connection is constantly connected to the Internet, so a firewall and up-to-date antivirus software are essential. A firewall helps block unwanted threats like hackers from getting into your system.
Many people believe once you install antivirus software on your computer, that's all you need to do, that's not right. It needs to be kept up-to-date by downloading regular virus definitions from the software manufacturer's website. This should be automatic or at least once a week.
Monitor your usage
Most ISPs have tools that let you monitor your usage. Sometimes these are downloadable tools that sit in your taskbar, or you just login to the ISP's website to check monthly or daily summaries. If you find you are burning through your quota, crack down on the offending parties or consider changing plans.
File sharing software
Many people don't understand the dangers of programs like LimeWire, BitTorrent and other peer-to-peer (P2P) sharing applications. Not only do they leave your PC open to attack from viruses and spyware, people can download files from your computer - instantly increasing your usage. Remember, usage is any traffic to and from your PC.
P2P programs can also transform your PC into a "supernode". This means other users can upload file lists to your machine, so when people search for files, they send the request to a supernode - increasing unwanted traffic to your PC and using up your data limit.
Sites with high data usage
Video streaming and online gaming sites use a lot of data transfer. You need to bear this in mind, because watching YouTube videos or online news bulletins can very quickly use up your allocated data. The graphical nature of interactive online games also plough through your download limits, using anywhere between 10MB and 80MB an hour.
*Shaped or shaping means an ISP has reduced the speed of your Internet connection after you've reached your data limit. The meter resets at the next billing cycle. This stops you getting nasty excess fees each month.
Sunday, September 12, 2010
A CUTE POEM FOR A CUTE GIRL
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You changed my world with a blink of an eye
That is something that I can not deny
You put my soul from worst to best
That is why I treasure you my dearest Marites
You just don't know what you have done for me
You even pushed me to the best that I can be
You really are an angel sent from above
To take care of me and shower with love
When I'm with you I will not cry even a single a tear
And your touch have chased away all of my fear
You have given me a life that I could live worthwhile
It is even better everytime you smile
It so magical those things you've made
To bring back my faith that almost fade
Now my life is a dream come true
It all began when I was loved by you
Now I have found what I am looking for
It's you and your love and nothing more
Co'z you have given me this feeling of contentment
In my life something I've never felt
I wish I could talk 'til the end of day
But now I'm running out of things to say
So I'll end by the line you already know
"I LOVE YOU" more than what I could show
Freeze This Moment

We were sitting on your rooftop
Staring at the skies
The sun was dipping lower
I looked into your eyes
You saw what I was feeling
I know you felt it too
We wanted time to just stand still
Then forever there'd be me and you
Why can't we freeze this moment?
Return to it in time
Stay together through the years
Proclaim I'm yours and you are mine
So let us freeze this moment
Store it safely away
Even if we leave this place
We'll return to it someday
Tuesday, September 7, 2010
A Rose That Once Stood Alone
A solitary rose grew in the darkest corner of the garden
Surrounded by many others
Yet remained alone
Time passed and trials came and went
One dealt a severe blow
And the rose began to wilt and wither
Forgotten...
Then... as if by a miracle...
There came a soft and gentle breeze
Followed by a ray of light
As all the other roses fell into darkness
The solitary rose began to shine
Shining with a special light...
And watered by a gentle cascade...
A cascade of love
A cascade of selfless affection
"I do... not now but forever..."
Said the rose to the sunlight
And there they remain
A rose in full bloom
With her sunshine smiling down on her...
You are my sunshine, my life, my very soul
And I your rose blooming in the light of your love.
Surrounded by many others
Yet remained alone
Time passed and trials came and went
One dealt a severe blow
And the rose began to wilt and wither
Forgotten...
Then... as if by a miracle...
There came a soft and gentle breeze
Followed by a ray of light
As all the other roses fell into darkness
The solitary rose began to shine
Shining with a special light...
And watered by a gentle cascade...
A cascade of love
A cascade of selfless affection
"I do... not now but forever..."
Said the rose to the sunlight
And there they remain
A rose in full bloom
With her sunshine smiling down on her...
You are my sunshine, my life, my very soul
And I your rose blooming in the light of your love.
For My Angel..
The day you came into my life will be cherished always.
An angel sent from heaven above for my lonely heart to hold.
My heart is no longer lonely, but instead
filled with the wonder of a love like I’ve never known.
When you first held me, it was magical!
A touch no other but my soulmate could provide.
Truly the passion needed no words.
Your kiss on my lips is something I long for each day.
With a single kiss the intensity of your love so incredibly clear!
Your eyes melt me with emotion so intense it is beyond belief.
A caring and unconditional love that shines from them
that makes me shiver with excitement for our life to come.
Each day your smile fills my heart with a joy like no other.
Oh but to have you in my life is truly a blessing!
On the day we wed...
I promise to you yet again my unconditional love and devotion.
For I will cherish each day that God gives me with you,
our own little piece of heaven on earth.
I will love you always.
Sunday, September 5, 2010
Heaven's Door
I opened my eyes and thought it was
just another ordinary day
then you stepped into my life
and you took my breath away
You taught me the true meanings
of to trust and surrender
and the sweet joy of passion
as you put my fears at bay
And when your gentle tenderness
blows so softly through my mind
I know that what I feel for you
can stand the test of time
The essence of your being
lingers in my soul
the sweetness of your kiss
as your lips slowly meet mine
The thunder of your heart
as it beats so close in time
in step with me, pushing me
to the brink of heaven's door
I know that's how it will be
and I want it soo
more and more and more
Then came your whisper on the wind
and into my heart it did send
the tenderest fire I've ever known
an emotion so strong I've never been shown
A GORGEOUS PLEASANT SURPRISE..
You came into my life so quick,
A gorgeous pleasant surprise,
I hoped you wouldn't give me the flick,
Then, a beautiful friendship did arise.
Our bond was so very strong,
It couldn't help but turn into love,
We wondered if going further was wrong,
But we fit each other like a glove.
It feels so right to be so near,
To feel like we are but one,
Sometimes our love is worth a tear,
Those tears of joy, I'm sure there are more to come
It really is love, my baby,
The longing for one anothers lips,
You are my beautiful young lady,
I know it as we dance with my hands upon your hips.
A gorgeous pleasant surprise,
I hoped you wouldn't give me the flick,
Then, a beautiful friendship did arise.
Our bond was so very strong,
It couldn't help but turn into love,
We wondered if going further was wrong,
But we fit each other like a glove.
It feels so right to be so near,
To feel like we are but one,
Sometimes our love is worth a tear,
Those tears of joy, I'm sure there are more to come
It really is love, my baby,
The longing for one anothers lips,
You are my beautiful young lady,
I know it as we dance with my hands upon your hips.
Whispering of the Night.....

Listen To The Winds Soft Cry
Of A Lady Singing Her Lullaby
Whispers Of The Night So Long
Wishing For That Famous Love Song
You Are My Light
When Darkness Falls
You Are My Sight
In My Darkened Halls
Hear The Joy Of An Angel's Glee
When The People Around Her Now See
With Eyes So Clear And Pure
All Now Really Can Be Sure
Forever Love...
You are my description of love
You are my description of friend
You are my description of everything
You are my description of beginning to end.
You have put me on a pedestal
You make me feel ten feet tall
You've always been there for me
You've loved me through it all.
You've stood by me through thick and thin
You've always been patient and kind
Just thought I'd let you know
You're the owner of this heart of mine.
So you ask how long I'll love you
Well this is what I have to say
How to get rid of Scammers..
You may have heard your parents say that there's no substitute for hard work, but hard work isn't exactly making you rich. You still have debts to settle, bills to pay, and you're not making enough to afford things you want for yourself. Yet street corners, leaflets, magazine articles, and TV advertisements tell you that they have the secret to infinite wealth and prosperity. The catch is you have to “invest” in a “business” or a “joint venture.” Don't be fooled: you're well on your way to falling into a scam.
Scammers and con artists are everywhere, preying on the wants and the needs of people for financial security or their desire for wealth. Over the years, many scammers have developed many ways to dupe people out of their hard-earned money. While some people would offer an “unpaid and voluntary” testimonial that the system works, people actually become poorer as a result. You don't have to be a victim of get-rich-quick scams before you learn your lesson. All you need is a proper perspective on financial security, and some ways to get rid of those con artists for good.
There's No Such Thing as a "Get-Rich-Quick" Scheme
Economics and business may seem complicated, but they're actually very simple. Here are four things you need to remember:
Money has to come from somewhere. Scammers will often tell you that “you don't need to work” to earn money. Even the richest stockholders hold eight-hour jobs keeping track of their investments, and buy and sell stock. To have money, you have to work.
Investments need time to grow. Some scammers guarantee that you'll make hundreds, if not thousands, of dollars in a single week. All investments need time to mature and to grow. There's absolutely no way you can make a million dollars in a week if you only invest one dollar.
Money is not infinite. There is no such thing as “unlimited income,” although scammers will woo and lure you with the promise of “infinite opportunities.” Even rich people have a cap and a limit to how much they earn and make.
No risk, no reward. The only ways to make big money out of a small investment is to gamble on the lottery or a casino. There's no substitute for earning money the decent, honest way.
Kinds of Scams
Here are some common scams on the market today:
Multi-Level Marketing. Pyramiding schemes, also called Ponzi schemes, have been around for a long time. Some companies frown upon the term “pyramiding,” and would rather call themselves “multi-level marketing companies” or “direct-selling companies.” While MLM and direct selling are completely legal, they often sell goods at a jacked-up price and are near impossible to sell (like perfumes, soaps, shoes, and other things you can buy at a department store). The only way that you can earn money in this scam is when you do “people pairing,” or recruit others into the system. The only money-maker in a multi-level marketing scheme is the person on top of the pyramid; the rest lose out.
Elevator schemes. Also called matrix schemes, this scam usually promotes expensive gadgets like cell phones and laptops as “reward” items. In an elevator scheme, you buy a token item at a higher price than what it should cost. To get the “reward,” you need to be at the top of the list, and you need to recruit a set number of people into the scam. While there's a promise that you'll be on top of the list, the chances are so slim that you might as well give up all hope of getting the reward.
High-yield investment programs. HYIP, as it is often called, is simply a scam that promises that you can make money out of absolutely nothing. HYIP scams may promise that you can have high rates of return, in exchange for a “small investment.” HYIP scams do not give out details, or use vague terms like “prime” banks that do not actually exist.
E-mail scams. Chances are that you get spam e-mail, like you have just won in a lottery you didn't participate in or that your help is needed to funnel out money from a corrupt and war-torn country. The only thing these scammers need is your bank account number and your credit card number, and you'll see all your money go down the drain.
Don't Buy Into It
Even the most hard-line of MLM recruits know deep in their hearts that the scheme is a scam. Many get-rich-quick schemes are obvious con acts, but many people fall victim to the lure of easy money. Think about it: why would you buy bath soap for twice the price you would get for one at the supermarket? If everyone recruited their friends and family members into one organization, then is it possible for everyone to earn “unlimited income?”
Be very wary when you hear these words in sales pitches for scams:
“Direct selling” usually involves products that no-one wants to buy.
“People pairing” and “expanding matrix” are cleaned-up words for a pyramid scam.
Some scammers will often say that the market will never saturate because not everyone will succeed, except you. In reality, they pitch this to everyone.
Scammers usually disguise their schemes as a “business,” and often use motivational videos to tell you how much of a winner you are.
Money-making schemes often pitch that you don't have to work to make money. A common scheme is to tell people that they don't have to “slave over a job” to make “unlimited income.”
Investigate
Some scammers, particularly MLM affiliates, will tell you that they're completely legal, and will show you all sorts of papers and documentation to prove it. Some will also say that if they were a scam, distributors and manufacturers of major products would not do business with him. Don't be fooled; legal papers, checks, and other documentation can be forged. Established con schemes may also brag about their funds to keep Federal and private lawyers from bringing down the “business” or the “partnership.”
Like any business venture, it pays to see if the company is stable, is registered with the right government agencies, and has a solid reputation. If you're absolutely sure that the company is legitimate and stable, then it may be OK to invest in it.
Ask the Tough Questions
Don't be afraid or shy to ask challenging questions. If the company really claims to be a multi-million dollar earner, then its most loyal “business partners” should know a thing or two about basic business concepts like market saturation, distribution channels, market share, market penetration, and supply and demand. Never settle for personal testimonies, parables, or motivational drivel.
Scammers will beat around the bush and say that this kind of thinking is for “losers,” and that you should sell your car to make an investment in the “business.” If they force you to make tough decisions, then you have the right to ask the tough questions. Legitimate businesses that don't con and dupe other people will be more than willing to accommodate and take up your challenging questions. Scammers will beat around the bush, or would give a very vague answer to a simple question.
Promises of wealth can blind people into thinking that money does grow on trees. Once you fall into the trap of a get-rich-quick scam, you can't get out of it easily. Hard work and honest labor can make you rich, but it will take time, patience, dignity, and diligence.
Scammers and con artists are everywhere, preying on the wants and the needs of people for financial security or their desire for wealth. Over the years, many scammers have developed many ways to dupe people out of their hard-earned money. While some people would offer an “unpaid and voluntary” testimonial that the system works, people actually become poorer as a result. You don't have to be a victim of get-rich-quick scams before you learn your lesson. All you need is a proper perspective on financial security, and some ways to get rid of those con artists for good.
There's No Such Thing as a "Get-Rich-Quick" Scheme
Economics and business may seem complicated, but they're actually very simple. Here are four things you need to remember:
Money has to come from somewhere. Scammers will often tell you that “you don't need to work” to earn money. Even the richest stockholders hold eight-hour jobs keeping track of their investments, and buy and sell stock. To have money, you have to work.
Investments need time to grow. Some scammers guarantee that you'll make hundreds, if not thousands, of dollars in a single week. All investments need time to mature and to grow. There's absolutely no way you can make a million dollars in a week if you only invest one dollar.
Money is not infinite. There is no such thing as “unlimited income,” although scammers will woo and lure you with the promise of “infinite opportunities.” Even rich people have a cap and a limit to how much they earn and make.
No risk, no reward. The only ways to make big money out of a small investment is to gamble on the lottery or a casino. There's no substitute for earning money the decent, honest way.
Kinds of Scams
Here are some common scams on the market today:
Multi-Level Marketing. Pyramiding schemes, also called Ponzi schemes, have been around for a long time. Some companies frown upon the term “pyramiding,” and would rather call themselves “multi-level marketing companies” or “direct-selling companies.” While MLM and direct selling are completely legal, they often sell goods at a jacked-up price and are near impossible to sell (like perfumes, soaps, shoes, and other things you can buy at a department store). The only way that you can earn money in this scam is when you do “people pairing,” or recruit others into the system. The only money-maker in a multi-level marketing scheme is the person on top of the pyramid; the rest lose out.
Elevator schemes. Also called matrix schemes, this scam usually promotes expensive gadgets like cell phones and laptops as “reward” items. In an elevator scheme, you buy a token item at a higher price than what it should cost. To get the “reward,” you need to be at the top of the list, and you need to recruit a set number of people into the scam. While there's a promise that you'll be on top of the list, the chances are so slim that you might as well give up all hope of getting the reward.
High-yield investment programs. HYIP, as it is often called, is simply a scam that promises that you can make money out of absolutely nothing. HYIP scams may promise that you can have high rates of return, in exchange for a “small investment.” HYIP scams do not give out details, or use vague terms like “prime” banks that do not actually exist.
E-mail scams. Chances are that you get spam e-mail, like you have just won in a lottery you didn't participate in or that your help is needed to funnel out money from a corrupt and war-torn country. The only thing these scammers need is your bank account number and your credit card number, and you'll see all your money go down the drain.
Don't Buy Into It
Even the most hard-line of MLM recruits know deep in their hearts that the scheme is a scam. Many get-rich-quick schemes are obvious con acts, but many people fall victim to the lure of easy money. Think about it: why would you buy bath soap for twice the price you would get for one at the supermarket? If everyone recruited their friends and family members into one organization, then is it possible for everyone to earn “unlimited income?”
Be very wary when you hear these words in sales pitches for scams:
“Direct selling” usually involves products that no-one wants to buy.
“People pairing” and “expanding matrix” are cleaned-up words for a pyramid scam.
Some scammers will often say that the market will never saturate because not everyone will succeed, except you. In reality, they pitch this to everyone.
Scammers usually disguise their schemes as a “business,” and often use motivational videos to tell you how much of a winner you are.
Money-making schemes often pitch that you don't have to work to make money. A common scheme is to tell people that they don't have to “slave over a job” to make “unlimited income.”
Investigate
Some scammers, particularly MLM affiliates, will tell you that they're completely legal, and will show you all sorts of papers and documentation to prove it. Some will also say that if they were a scam, distributors and manufacturers of major products would not do business with him. Don't be fooled; legal papers, checks, and other documentation can be forged. Established con schemes may also brag about their funds to keep Federal and private lawyers from bringing down the “business” or the “partnership.”
Like any business venture, it pays to see if the company is stable, is registered with the right government agencies, and has a solid reputation. If you're absolutely sure that the company is legitimate and stable, then it may be OK to invest in it.
Ask the Tough Questions
Don't be afraid or shy to ask challenging questions. If the company really claims to be a multi-million dollar earner, then its most loyal “business partners” should know a thing or two about basic business concepts like market saturation, distribution channels, market share, market penetration, and supply and demand. Never settle for personal testimonies, parables, or motivational drivel.
Scammers will beat around the bush and say that this kind of thinking is for “losers,” and that you should sell your car to make an investment in the “business.” If they force you to make tough decisions, then you have the right to ask the tough questions. Legitimate businesses that don't con and dupe other people will be more than willing to accommodate and take up your challenging questions. Scammers will beat around the bush, or would give a very vague answer to a simple question.
Promises of wealth can blind people into thinking that money does grow on trees. Once you fall into the trap of a get-rich-quick scam, you can't get out of it easily. Hard work and honest labor can make you rich, but it will take time, patience, dignity, and diligence.
Wednesday, January 20, 2010
Munnar
The journey to Munnar was not really an easy one as we had to opt a car from Thodupuzha.It took nearly 4 hours to reach the place and it was around 11 in the morning when we reached Munnar. Our journey groups consist of 5 and all of us were chronic bachelors. Our plan was to stay 2 days in Munnar and resume our journey to Thekkady, another hill station of Kerala.
We desperately need some rest. Thank God we had reserved our room in a hotel called Forest Haven Resorts. The hotel is constructed eco-friendly and is located on Manculam Road of Munnar. It is a two star hotel and we really enjoyed the panoramic view of cardamom plantation by sitting our rooms itself.
The hotel authorities arranged a local Jeep for sight seeing and our driver was too bachelor. The journey started and our friend Johny already opened the bottle of King Fisher and started enjoying. Oom…we started to feel the cool breeze and our driver friend advised to wear overcoats if any.
The journey itself was thrilling as the roads were very curvy. We had heard about the exclusive flower Neelakurunji which bathes once in twelve years! We were unfortunate that the season just gone and you need to wait for another 12 years. What is fascinating about Munnar is the presence of cardamom plantation everywhere. You can just feel its presence through the air we breathe.
We reached TataTeaMuseum where you can see how tea is produced. Nice museum with some historical tea producing machines. You can taste variety of tea there! Alas! Photography is permitted there and that provoked my friends.
Our driver told us about a national park of Munnar – Eravikulam around 20 km from the museum. We had our lunch and started our journey to the park. We reached within half an hour and entered the park. The park houses endangered Nilgiri goat; nice to see these special animals eating greenery of Munnar. Very special birds are another attraction of park. Bird lovers should be here at the earliest moment.
we really enjoyed the trip.we also took lot of photographs as well.Really it was an unforgettable journey.........
We desperately need some rest. Thank God we had reserved our room in a hotel called Forest Haven Resorts. The hotel is constructed eco-friendly and is located on Manculam Road of Munnar. It is a two star hotel and we really enjoyed the panoramic view of cardamom plantation by sitting our rooms itself.
The hotel authorities arranged a local Jeep for sight seeing and our driver was too bachelor. The journey started and our friend Johny already opened the bottle of King Fisher and started enjoying. Oom…we started to feel the cool breeze and our driver friend advised to wear overcoats if any.
The journey itself was thrilling as the roads were very curvy. We had heard about the exclusive flower Neelakurunji which bathes once in twelve years! We were unfortunate that the season just gone and you need to wait for another 12 years. What is fascinating about Munnar is the presence of cardamom plantation everywhere. You can just feel its presence through the air we breathe.
We reached TataTeaMuseum where you can see how tea is produced. Nice museum with some historical tea producing machines. You can taste variety of tea there! Alas! Photography is permitted there and that provoked my friends.
Our driver told us about a national park of Munnar – Eravikulam around 20 km from the museum. We had our lunch and started our journey to the park. We reached within half an hour and entered the park. The park houses endangered Nilgiri goat; nice to see these special animals eating greenery of Munnar. Very special birds are another attraction of park. Bird lovers should be here at the earliest moment.
we really enjoyed the trip.we also took lot of photographs as well.Really it was an unforgettable journey.........
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